i am so not used to it. it's really been a looong time since i've heard family quarrels. and i always feel really awkward 'cos i hate to argue and i know that arguments can also be gd, but it's just a horrible feeling. i dunno y i can't seem to argue w anyone, i just don't find the meaning of it. i would refer to it as a moment of irrationality, a moment of regret. and i dun like the feeling of regret 'cos it infiltrates my system and never leaves. quarrels bring out the ugliest sides of people, and Man always remember the ugly things. it just takes a certain level of maturity and sensibility to be able to benefit from conflicts; sometimes it takes too long that the hostility solidifies like a tumour and spreads all over you. it's just another sad thought i guess..